Friday, June 03, 2005

The foolish female heart

He doesn't remember your birthday, he doesn't remember you don't eat durian, he doesn't take pains to come talk to you in a group, he dodges outings alone with you, he only calls when he has something to ask or something to tell.

And yet you persist in reading more into the things he says, the emails he writes, the calls he makes.

Get over it, move on, girl. He's not into you.

14 comments:

The Carpenter said...

Another possibility is that he hasnt really realized that he's not into you yet and that's why he behaves in that manner.

Ang Ku Kueh said...

Sometimes I think guys are just obtuse. maybe should ask him outright, then she can really get closure to either move onwards or outwards. It's not that hard, did it before and bloody saved me a lot of time, not having to always rack my brains questioning everything he did.

Woof! said...

*hug* oh no.. this is the first time I recall that you've written a post so personal..

must be really eating at u huh.. all I can say is, from the little I know of u, he's already missing out on a whole ton!

Zoe said...

Eh. I just came across your blog while browsing some other ones and yet I have to say-- why does that sound so familiar? All these guys... ch. All like that, aren't they?

One Little Twit said...

If all the above is true ....


You shouldnt be into him too!

Li-er said...

Hmm... How long have you known him? Has he shown any slight liking for you? If he hasn't, then I guess it's really time to move on. The feelings of being paranoid over what he does can sometimes drive you crazy, isn't it? *HuGGieS*

JellyGirl said...

Carpenter & Li-er: Much as I would like to think otherwise, it's probably all in my mind.

AKK: Coming right out to ask does seem the most logical thing to do, but girl, that takes guts!

Woof!: Thank you, you're too sweet! I'm actually more annoyed at myself for not being able to just let it go.

Twit: Preeeecisely.

Woof! said...

well, if u read my blog, don't we both have problems letting go? :o)

as the rest suggest, there is nothing better to flush the ferret out than a point-blank "i love ("like" also can lah) you", but if we're too shy, then we have to live with the wondering, etc. Who ask us no guts right?

JellyGirl said...

Woof: Ah well, such is life. The heart is a troublesome thing. But I know it'll all be OK!

Fashionasia said...

well $398 x 2.3 = RM 915.4
Think its still way cheaper. I think its still about RM 1200 the least.

oh and I'm totally panicking girl!! been trying to book a hotel in spore for the past week. Used the online booking and wow.....i tried 7 hotels and all FULLY BOOKED!!!! @@

Fashionasia said...

ooops...i post this on the wrong comment space...should be for the latter post. hehe

JellyGirl said...

Fashion: Where is your conference being held? Do you need any help with hotel reservations (or other recommendations)? Ya hotel bookings can be such a pain huh?

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